The best way to console someone.

You or someone is sad about something? The best way to console( to allay the sorrow or grief; comfort ) someone is tell them about how you or someone else's problem are worse. For example, a girl who her fíance  broke up with her.  Her boss of where she works told her about the best way to console someone and he gave an example he lost his family.  It's sad because she is his daughter but they don't know it.... Err,  it's very confusing and I'm not going to get into now but I will later.  It is a Korean drama My sister in law is 19. Anyways, think about those people without home's and/or families. Of course there are things are different like actually losing a family member, being homeless, etc. I mean there's no need for 'crying over spilled milk'  like boyfriends/girlfriends etc.  when they're people getting abused, raped, and just with real problems with lifelong scars. Because with being scared for life it's hard to mend there pain. Especially if you haven't been through what they are going through  or had it worse. We live a world where pain is everything there are people dieing  everyday,  there's violence, pollution, war. Most people are aware that the world is hurting but don't think to much of it.  Like take drugs for an example, everyone is told of the risks but they take it anyways. Thinking nothing will happen to me. Most people in the world always think that oh I won't get pregnant, cancer, and so much more.  The world is blind.  That they can't see through truth.
I didn't mean start talking about that I just off topic but I always because I am not very good at explaining so I tend to add a lot of details so I'm sorry. I put a lot of details because I think that someone might not understand and take it the wrong way.